There are people whose lives are measured by accomplishments, and there are people whose lives are measured by the lives they touch. Phyllis Ann Haskin was one of those rare people whose greatest legacy was not found in possessions or titles, but in the family she loved, the faith she shared, and the countless lives she quietly shaped along the way.

Phyllis was born on November 22, 1932, in Goltry, Oklahoma, where she was raised in a farming community during a time when life was simple, work was hard, and faith was a way of life. Those early years instilled in her values that would remain with her forever. Humility, perseverance, generosity, and an unwavering trust in God. She often proved throughout her life that wisdom is not measured by years of education, but by a heart willing to learn, listen, and love. She had more wisdom beyond her education.

As a young woman, Phyllis ventured from the family farm to Enid, Oklahoma, determined to build a life of her own. She worked wherever opportunity led her, including as a waitress, before beginning a career as a switchboard operator with Southwestern Bell. She would eventually retire from Southwestern Bell before later serving as a switchboard operator for OG&E. Whether serving customers, coworkers, or strangers, she believed every job deserved her full effort and every person deserved kindness and respect.

In 1951, Phyllis ("Philly" as her husband endearingly called her) married the love of her life, Delbert Donald Haskin. Together they built a marriage rooted in love, commitment, and shared faith. In 1965, they purchased a farm in Cushing and built a small cabin that would become one of the family's most treasured places. There, life slowed down. Meals were cooked on a wood-burning stove, stories were shared around the table, card games filled the evenings, and children learned to appreciate a simpler way of life. It wasn't about having the most, it was about making the most of what God had provided. They later built their forever home on the same property and put down roots.

Together they raised their family with unconditional love and sacrifice. Their children were Kirby Haskin, Don Haskin, Jackie Brockamp, and Dwight Haskin and were always her greatest priority. She rarely put herself first. Instead, she found joy in helping her children discover their own talents and passions. Whether it meant horseback riding lessons, piano lessons, a college education in Engineering, or simply encouraging them every step of the way, she believed investing in her children was one of life's greatest callings.

That same encouragement extended naturally to her grandchildren. Education mattered deeply to Phyllis. She patiently taught times tables, quizzed grandchildren on the presidents of the United States, read to them and made them read during the summer break, and celebrated every accomplishment, big or small. She believed learning built confidence, and confidence opened doors.

Faith was the cornerstone of everything Phyllis did. For many years she faithfully worshipped at Oak Grove Baptist Church, where she lived out her belief that salvation comes only through Jesus Christ. Her greatest desire was not simply that her family be successful, but that they know Christ as their Savior. She often reminded those she loved to "Take it to God," and one of her deepest convictions was that "one of the most important jobs is to lead children to Christ." Those words were not simply advice. They were the way she lived. Through her example, prayers, and conversations, she helped lead both her children and grandchildren to a personal relationship with Christ, leaving a spiritual legacy that will endure for generations.

If there was one place that reflected Phyllis's heart, it was her home. No grandchild ever arrived without finding snacks waiting in the kitchen. Lunch was almost always served with a glass of sweet tea, and no one ever left hungry. Her barbecue ribs and mashed potatoes became family favorites that are remembered with as much love as the conversations shared around her table. She had a gift for making ordinary moments feel special simply because everyone was together.

She found joy in tending her beautiful rose bushes and planting a vegetable garden every spring. Gardening wasn't something she did alone. Grandchildren were expected to help, and while they may not have appreciated it at the time, those hours spent pulling weeds, picking vegetables, and working beside their grandmother became treasured memories. Like her garden, she understood that the best things in life require patience, care, and a willingness to invest in something that will grow long after you're gone.

Phyllis also believed in serving others. She generously volunteered her time as a "Pink Lady" at the hospital, quietly caring for people she often had never met. She never looked for recognition or praise. Helping others simply came naturally because serving people reflected the heart of Christ she sought to follow. Perhaps one of Phyllis's greatest gifts was preserving the story of her family. She carefully saved photographs, newspaper clippings, birth announcements, and keepsakes that many people would have discarded. She understood that memories matter. She knew future generations would one day treasure those pieces of family history, just as they treasure them today. She became the keeper of her family's story, ensuring that those who came after would always know where they came from.

She was also the person people turned to when life became difficult. She listened without judgment, offered wisdom without criticism, and somehow always knew the right words to say. Her gentle spirit brought comfort to those around her, and her quiet strength gave others courage to face whatever challenges lay ahead.

Phyllis is preceded in death by her beloved husband, Delbert Donald Haskin; her sons, Kirby Haskin and Don Haskin; her brothers, Jim Becker and Jack Becker; and her sister, Patty Slaughter.

She is survived by her daughter, Jackie Brockamp (Joe); her son, Dwight Haskin; her sister, Mary Jane Oberbay (Bill); her grandchildren, Bernadette McGuire (Michael), Katelyn Staley (Camren), Jon Ninness, Nathan Ninness (Haley), Jeffrey Haskin (Amber), Andrew Haskin, and Dustin Haskin (Angie); along with her cherished great-grandchildren, extended family, dear friends, and all whose lives were enriched by knowing her.

On July 4, 2026, Phyllis peacefully entered the presence of the Savior she had faithfully loved and served throughout her life. While her family grieves the loss of her gentle presence, they rejoice in knowing she has been reunited with Delbert and those who went before her. The lessons she taught, the faith she lived, the traditions she began, and the love she poured into every generation will continue long after her passing.

A life as beautifully lived as hers cannot truly be measured in years. It is measured in prayers answered, children guided, gardens planted, meals shared, tears comforted, stories preserved, and generations forever changed because she was here.

"Her children rise up and call her blessed..." — Proverbs 31:28

Those who knew and loved Phyllis are invited to join her family for a time of visitation from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Wednesday, July 8 at Davis Funeral home in Cushing.

A celebration of her life will be held Thursday, July 9, 2026, at Crossway Church, 1214 E. North St, Cushing, Oklahoma with pastor Sonny Johnson officiating at 1 PM.