Constance Irene Whitlow was born June 15, 1937, to Anderson and Rose Allen in Pawnee, Oklahoma. She departed this life June 16, 2022, in Cushing, Oklahoma at the age of 85. In her earlier years she enjoyed teaching children. She also loved sewing, cooking, and spending time with her family. She had a compassionate heart and was always willing to help those in need. Her last job was working as the school librarian at Graham Public Schools. Constance had an artistic side to her and really had a passion for drawing. She had many things she enjoyed but her first responsibility was raising her ten children. Constance found her soul mate, Eugene Whitlow in the early 1970's. They enjoyed gardening together as well as going to church together. She was the ultimate caretaker. She is survived by her husband, Eugene Whitlow; six sons, Timothy Schexnider, Herbert Schexnider, David Schexnider, Michael Schexnider, Brian Schexnider, Waylon Whitlow; one daughter, Wendy Whitlow; four siblings, Mary Butler, Sue Griffith, John Allen, and Marilyn Johnson; numerous grandchildren, great grandchildren, and great great grandchildren as well as nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, three children, Mark Schexnider, Jeffry Schexnider, Diane Schexnider. A wake will begin at 7:00PM, Sunday June, 19, 2022 and will follow with funeral services at 10:00AM, Monday, June 20, 2022 at the Matherly Davis Family Center.